Saturday, December 18, 2010

Getting ready for Christmas

It is great to be excited about Christmas again. Last year we pretty much skipped Christmas - it was not a happy time. Jack had been home just over a month, but Luke was still in the hospital. Flu season was in full swing, the hospital had extra precautions because of swine flu, and Jack was not allowed to see Luke in the hospital. We took him up anyway and had a plan to quickly get them together, but it did not work. All we wanted was one family picture of our first Christmas. The boys didn't have to touch or be close at all - we just wanted one picture with the four of us... We didn't do much celebrating last year and didn't decorate at all - no tree, no lights, nothing.

This Christmas season has been so much better. The boys are into everything, crawling and climbing everywhere and screaming a lot, but at least they are both home and we can celebrate our first Christmas together as a family. We have been listening to some Christmas music and watching a lot of the Grinch and Christmas Carol movies (Muppets Christmas Carol, Flinstones Christmas Carol and Mickey's Christmas Carol). Our Christmas tree is surrounded by a metal baby gate to keep boys and dog from attacking the tree or snooping around the presents.

Jack checking out the presents under the tree


Trying to figure out how to get in there


Jack is getting more teeth and is very grumpy most afternoons. He rarely stays still or wants to cuddle, but sometimes he will now


Two crazy boys playing around after their baths today



Here are a few videos:

Luke dancing while listening to Taylor Swift. We were watching the live music from the 2010 NFL Kickoff season-opening game in New Orleans, and the boys liked it!



Jack and Lily playing on the floor



Luke playing with Lily's toy



Jack and Luke playing with Lily. Luke is not very excited and just wants to chew on his oxygen tubing...

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Update on Luke and the past month

It's been a very busy, long and tiring past few weeks and almost a month since the last update. Community Connections' A Royal Night Out was a huge success - the second annual event almost doubled in size and doubled the money raised! The day after that, we flew to Charlotte to spend the week of Thanksgiving with family in South Carolina. The boys traveled well and we had a great time - it just took them a few days to get back into their normal routine once we were back home.

Last week Jack and Luke had the second half of their one-year shots. Luke did well and only cried until the shots were done. Jack's leg must have been asleep, because all he did was stare at the nurse with a serious face - no crying, not even a frown... In the past two weeks, Luke has had three appointments at the hospital. The first was at the audiology clinic to retest his hearing. He failed one test before coming home in January (not uncommon for babies on a lot of oxygen like he was) and this appointment has been set since the spring. Luke did fine and they just want to see him in another year to check one more time.

Tuesday Luke went to the pulmonary clinic for a 1-month followup. After his hospitalization in October, Luke was on oxygen all day and night. Last month the pulmonary clinic had us discontinue daytime oxygen and only use it at night. Luke has continued to grow slowly but steadily until now. He lost weight this past month - dropped from 5.8kg to 5.6kg. Luke is now back on oxygen all the time and we expect it to continue at least through the winter.

Since February, Luke has had monthly visits to the high-risk newborn clinic at the hospital. They have kept a close watch on his growth and development, but the doctors have been very conservative and at times slow to act when we have brought up concerns. During Luke's hospitalization in October, the pulmonary team let us know about the Medical Home Clinic at the hospital. It is a place for kids with chronic medical conditions that need the services of multiple clinics at the hospital (Luke has seen newborn, eye, audiology, radiology, and pulmonary clinics and has had two hospitalizations since being home). They will help coordinate multiple appointments by making sure they are scheduled the same day. It should be a big help and will let us squeeze things into one day instead of making three visits like we have these last two weeks.

Yesterday was Luke's first visit to the medical home clinic. Rachel was working but was able to leave her unit and be with us for most of the visit. The doctor and nurse were great and will be very proactive with his care plan. While we are excited about the change, it was not a good day. We have known since the spring that if Luke does not gain enough weight consistently, the last resort is a feeding tube.

All year long, the newborn clinic has tweaked his "recipe" and increased the calories of his formula each month. They were concerned about his slow growth curve, but his growth has been proportionate (weight, length and head circumference) - that is no longer the case. If babies are not getting enough calories, slower head growth is the first sign, followed by slowed development. Yesterday's measurements showed that Luke's head growth is no longer following his length and weight.

Luke is eating all that he can/will right now, but the doctor thinks it is only about 60-70% of the calories he needs. Babies need to gain about 20 grams per day for normal growth and Luke's best average has only been around 7 grams. The doctor is giving him one more chance until the next appointment - we are adding more calories to his formula and Luke is also starting Reglan. We do not have a date for his next visit, but it should be in 4-6 weeks.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

A Royal Night Out

It has been a VERY busy week and the craziness will continue until Friday is over. The job I have started helping Community Connections has its busiest time of the year in November. Friday night is A Royal Night Out, our biggest event of the year. I have been contacting media this last month, making sure that information about the event is sent to newspapers, magazines, radio & TV stations, websites and local events calendars throughout central Arkansas. Now I'm working on the printed materials needed for the event and next will be the pictures and music needed for the evening. Anyone local is encouraged to come out and support kids with special needs!

Monday, November 8, 2010

Boys photo shoot

Luke had an appointment last week at the hospital to see the pulmonary clinic. He continues to gain weight and the doctor was pleased with his growth curve. For the last few months, Luke's growth has plateaued and the newborn clinic (which Luke would visit every month) was really out of ideas - his formula is 35 calories per ounce and we are feeding him everything he will take. Now, Luke's curve is back and the pulmonary doctor feels he is doing well enough to discontinue oxygen during the day! He is still acting much happier and seems more energetic. We will just use the oxygen at night and Luke will go back in a month.

Saturday we took the boys to have pictures taken. They slept on the way and were still a little sleepy, but they did well! To view all of the pictures click here. Here are a few:









Thursday, November 4, 2010

Back home

Had a great trip and just got home. I knew Rachel and Mom had projects they were working on while I was away, and here is what I found on the dining room wall leading into the living room:






Wednesday, November 3, 2010

More pictures from my trip

Great day having fun and getting to know some other Arkansans better. They will be serving for the next year at Our House, a "working" homeless shelter in Little Rock. Don't know much about what they do, but we may be able to help each other out in the coming year.
Here are some pictures from today:

Sandia Mountains in the distance



We took the bus tonight to head out and see what we could find



The scenery and surroundings reminded us a lot of the movie Cars



Passed these on our walk to dinner



We skipped the hotel dinner again - had to find some real authentic New Mexican food before heading home



Dinner was great! My enchiladas were topped with VERY spicy red chili sauce, but everything was very good. Half a day to wrap things up, then we will head to the airport and be home tomorrow night!

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Update from New Mexico

The boys are doing well. Luke goes to the pulmonary clinic at the hospital tomorrow for a follow-up from his 9-day hospital stay. The boys are also going to the doctor in the afternoon for the first half of their one-year shots.

My mom flew in for the week to help Rachel with the boys while I am gone. All I know is that there are some super-secret projects going on at home and I am in for a surprise when I get back Thursday night...

I am in Albuquerque, NM for some orientation/training for my job this next year. The job is helping provide free extracurricular actiities for special-needs kids through Community Connections of Arkansas. Technically the job is a one-year volunteer position through the federal government's Americorp VISTA (Volunteers In Service To America) program. Over 150 volunteers from the southwest region of the country have gathered for a pre-service orientation.

I am working with three great women - Jodie McGinley, Kelly Coffman and Jamie Tyler. We are having a good time, but miss our families and are ready to be back home. It really is nice to lose my responsibilities with the boys for a few days, but it would be much more fun if Rachel were here.

One block from our hotel is "Uptown Albuquerque" with a great view of the Sandia mountains



We passed a patch of cactus along the sidewalk on our walk to Starbucks




We found a cool custom cookie shop that had all kinds of interesting creations






New Mexico is known for their annual hot air balloon festival - there is lots of balloon stuff around



Tonight we decided to skip dinner at the hotel and headed to a Japanese steakhouse



Jodie, Kelly and Jamie



Stopped in the Apple store to check out the new iPods and MacBook Airs